1、How can you...? 你怎么能……？ This is a good sentence pattern because it is strong. If you have a strong feeling or emotion you need to express, this is the pattern for you! How can you stand such terrible weather?（你怎么能受得了这种恶劣天气？） How can you stand her nagging all the time?（你怎么能受得了她整天唠叨？） How can you stand the pressure here?（你怎么能受得了这里的压力？） A: How can you treat me like that? B: You’re too sensitive. I didn’t do anything wrong! A: 你怎么能那样对我？ B: 你太敏感了。我没做错什么事。 A: How can you do such a stupid thing? B: I don’t know. I wasn’t thinking I guess. Besides, what would you have done if you were in my shoes? A: 你怎么能做出这种蠢事？ B: 我不知道。可能没有思考过。再说，如果你处于我的位置，你会怎么做呢？