《交友之道与豪猪哲学》


朋友关系的存续是以相互尊重为前提的，容不得半点强求、干涉和控制。朋友之间，情趣相投、脾气对味则合、则交;反之，则离、则绝。朋友之间再熟悉、再亲密，也不能随便过头、不恭不敬。不然，默契和平衡将被打破，友好关系将不复存在。每个人都希望拥有自己的私密空间，朋友之间过于随便，就容易侵入这片禁区，从而引起冲突，造成隔阂。待友不敬，或许只是一件小事，却可能已埋下了破坏性的种子。维持朋友亲密关系的最好办法是往来有节，互不干涉。



Friends tend to become more intimate if they are congenial; otherwise they will separate or break with eath other. However familiar and close they are with each other, friends cannot be too casual and behave freely towards each other. Otherwise the harmony and balance will be broken, and t
he relationship among friends will no longer exist. Everyone hopes to have his own private space , and too casual relationship among friends will mislead them to invade this piece of restricted areas easily with a result of conflicts and alienation. Furthermore, it may be not a big matter to treat friends in a disrespectful matter, however, it is likely to plant the devastating seeds. The best way to keep the close relationship between is to keep contacts with restraint and mutual non-intetference.