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我们常以为 告别就是简单地挥手

说一声再见

殊不知 原来想念会那么长

像治不好的慢性病

反反复复

才知道

告别不是遗忘的开始

它就是那次洒脱的转身

而你

难以再回头



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我们学会了告别,却低估了想念

音乐故事

打扮得漂漂亮亮的去参加同学聚会，这样自信阳光的自己，我真的好喜欢。跟几个老友相处的感觉还是跟当年一样，仿佛时间倒退，青春也没有走，一切都没变。一个平时联系比较少的同学突然问起我：“你之前不是跟隔壁班那谁在一起吗？他怎么没来？”一句看似不经意的普通问候，这时候在我心里已经像接收到某种敏感信号，开始冒泡，起了疙瘩。

或许人长大的其中一个标志，就是学会了伪装。虽然内心早已暗潮汹涌，但我还是可以云淡风轻地笑笑说：“早就分手了，几百年前的人还提来干嘛？”谎话骗别人容易，要骗自己实在太难了。

聚会结束，走在回家的街，那一盏泛黄寡欢的路灯，我跟它一样，形单影只。这些年，他一直是那个我渴望听到又害怕提及的人，不是不敢面对失去，而是他离开后我才发现，学会停止想念比学会告别，要难多了。



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刘瑞琦

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可能每个谈过恋爱的人都知道，热恋期的想念是甜的，吵架完的想念还会带着期盼，唯有说了分手之后的想念是最磨人的。像我，一持续就好几年，也不知道什么时候会停止。

说起这段过往的感情，其实并没有特别的地方，没有偶像剧般的相遇，他也不是个浪漫的人，两个人就是觉得很聊得来，刚在一起的时候就像相处了很久的家人一样踏实。日子虽平淡，也少不了小吵小闹，但给我的感觉，它就是小说里写的那种细水长流的爱情。只是我没想到，有一天他也会厌倦了哄我，我也不愿意放下固执，我们就这样说了再见。

都是要经历过才懂：再见说得越轻易，想念就会越痛苦。因为你会慢慢想起有些话还没说，有些事还来不及做，而最后一次以情侣的身份站在他面前，你却果断地选择了快速潇洒地转身。

分手不难，难的是分手后的日子，太难熬了。

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We often think goodbye is simply waving our hands.

Say goodbye.

I don't know how long it was.

Like chronic diseases that cannot be cured

Over and over

not have understood until then

Farewell is not the beginning of forgetfulness.

It is the free and easy turn.

And you

Hard to look back

The

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We learned to say goodbye, but underestimated our yearning.

Music story

I am really very fond of myself. The feeling of getting along with a few old friends is the same as that of those years. It seems that time has gone backwards, youth has not gone, everything has not changed. A classmate who usually has less contact with me suddenly asked me, "Didn't you use to be with someone in the next class? Why didn't he come? " A seemingly casual greeting, at this time in my heart has been like receiving some sensitive signal, began to bubbles, a knot.

Perhaps one of the signs of growing up is to learn to pretend. Although my heart is already dark and turbulent, I can still smile lightly and say, "It's been a long time since we parted. What did people bring up hundreds of years ago?" It is easy to cheat others, but it is too hard to deceive oneself.

At the end of the party, walking on the street back home, I was alone like a street lamp which was yellow and widowed. Over the years, he has been the person I long to hear and fear to mention, not afraid to face loss, but after he left, I found that learning to stop missing is much more difficult than learning to say goodbye.

Fragmentary

Richael

Perhaps everyone who has ever been in love knows that the miss in love period is sweet, and the Miss after quarrel will bring expectation, but the Miss after breaking up is the most grinding. Like me, it lasted for several years, and I didn't know when it would stop.

Speaking of the past feelings, in fact, there is no special place, no Idol-like encounter, he is not a romantic person, two people just feel very chatty, just together like a long-term family as down-to-earth. Although the day is dull, there is no lack of small noise, but give me the feeling that it is the kind of love in the novel. But I did not expect that one day he would be tired of coaxing me, and I would not give up stubbornness, so we said goodbye.

I have to go through it before I understand it: the easier it is to say goodbye, the more painful it is to miss. Because you will slowly remember that some words have not been said, some things have not yet been done, and the last time you stand in front of him as a lover, you decisively chose to turn around quickly and smartly.

It's not hard to break up, but the hard part is the hard life after the breakup.